How is Ching Ming Day Celebrated
in Singapore Today?
Most Chinese visit
their ancestor's graves on this day. They take the
weeds out of the graveyard, and clean it. Then repaint the words
on the tombstones. All the members in the family take part in this activity.
They bring flowers, fruits, dim sum, wine and chicken. They also bring
incense, mock money and paper clothes.
All the things are
displayed at the headstone of the grave. They burn
the incense and show their respect to their ancestors. Then they burn the
money and paper clothes, which means they send those things to their
ancestors.
After
the ceremony, all family members sit and eat lunch. Other families
go to restaurants or somewhere else to eat. Wherever they eat they bow
to show respect. They talk about the stories of their ancestors so the
young people can remember things about their ancestors
What are the differences in the
ways Singaporeans celebrate Ching Ming day compared to the past or other
countries?
In Singapore, there
is no observance of the ‘cold food feast’.
Instead, Chinese families visit the graves of the departed, where they
will carry out the traditional sweeping and decorating of graves, make
offerings of food and flowers, and burn ritual money (squares of white
paper with a gold or red centre).
In China or
among some dialect groups, the festival lasts for a month beginning from
Early April to May but to be practical, this occasion
in Singapore is normally extended 10 days before and after the actual day.
In Singapore,
some of the deceased may be cremated unlike
China where most of the dead are buried in graves. The family of the cremated
will instead bring food and flowers and ritual money to the columbarium.
Singaporeans
are also adopting the practice of placing ancestral
tablets in temples. Hence to pay respects to ancestors also means
visiting the temples.